Strive for Excellence

January 15, 2006

Striving for excellence motivates you; striving for perfection is demoralizing.
~ Harriet Braiker

A Man’s Follies

January 11, 2006

The follies which a man regrets most, in his life, are those which he didn’t commit when he had the opportunity.
~Helen Rowland

Lost My StumbleUpon Toolbar

January 11, 2006

I lost my SU toolbar a few days ago. I was just about ready to spot some interesting webpages when I notice my favorite toolbar was missing.

After a few moment’s consternation, I tried to uninstall and then reinstall, but nothing happened.
I googled it, and found a similar problem where an extension was interfering with the SU toolbar. Thinking I may have a similar problem, I began deleting extensions that I use infrequently.

Web Developer On my second try, I found out that Web Developer was causing my SU toolbar to disappear.

After uninstalling Web Developer, my SU toolbar returned in all it’s glory!

Deborah Tannen: Men and Women

This conversation, in one form or another, happens almost daily between us. In truth, I really thought she was just being difficult.

A married couple was in a car when the wife turned to her husband and asked, “Would you like to stop for a coffee?”

“No, thanks,” he answered truthfully. So they didn’t stop.

The result? The wife, who had indeed wanted to stop, became annoyed because she felt her preference had not been considered. The husband, seeing his wife was angry, became frustrated. Why didn’t she just say what she wanted?

I am going to have to readjust my thinking towards my wife; what I consider to be just “whining” isn’t so at all. I’m always thinking, “why talk about it if you aren’t going to do anything about it?”

To many men a complaint is a challenge to come up with a solution. Mark thought he was reassuring Eve by telling her there was something she could do about her scar. But often women are looking for emotional support, not solutions.

I got a good chuckle when I read the next part:

A cartoon shows a husband opening a newspaper and asking his wife, “Is there anything you’d like to say to me before I start reading the paper?” We know there isn’t – but that as soon as the man begins reading, his wife will think of something.

Our version is, as soon as I get comfortable, wifey will send me on a trip to the kitchen. Several times! Read the entire article, I’m sure you’ll laugh, and probably learn something new.